Sue's Views: Make it your job to build strong community
My sister-in-law can't stand to hear someone fold paper. She cringes and covers her ears. It's worse than fingernails on a chalkboard for her.
My son has the same reaction when I sing along with my MP3 player. Just from the look on his face, I know that he doesn't find my rendition of a certain song soothing or enjoyable.
For me, the sound that is most irritating is the phrase, "It's not my job."